I made a few mistakes during my time as a teacher. Often, I didn’t realize it until later. When I reviewed myself, I became aware of silly statements, awkward phrases, and just plain wrong information.
It isn’t intentional, but it happens. And as much as I try not to make mistakes, I will do it again. But how is that possible since I call myself a teacher, leader, mentor, coach, and speaker?
Well, in addition to being all of those things, I am also human.
It is not my intent to give people bad information, but at times I have. For those times, I apologize. But as Alexander Pope famously said, “to err is human, to forgive divine."
There are many beauties to making mistakes. Mistakes remind us all that we are human. Mistakes provide the wisdom and experience we would otherwise miss out on. Learning from another person’s mistakes is wisdom. Learning from your own is experience.
As a teacher and mentor, having both wisdom and experience makes that relationship better. Mistakes allow mentees to understand that life isn’t perfect and that mistakes are part of the growth process. Mistakes remind the mentor that studying and growing is necessary for leaders, too. It is not the end of the world when people held in high regard make a mistake - it is simply a moment to show, as great as many can be, that they are still human living in an imperfect world.
The key to seeing your teacher make a mistake is to learn from it and to become wiser by learning from their mistakes. If you don’t, you will experience the lessons they’re learning for yourself. As a young man early in my military career, a mentor told me “You can make a million mistakes, you just can’t make the same on twice." Making the same mistake over and over again makes you a slow learner and a poor leader.
What do you do when your teacher, leader, mentor, coach, or a speaker is wrong? There are a few things that you can do:
End the relationships because your perfect picture has been tarnished
Go tell tales of the major embarrassment
Toss out their credibility for a bad sound bite
Learn from it
If you learn from the mistake, you and your relationship will be better for it! Value the moment. You are at a level where you can recognize the misstep. You have the opportunity to share your observations, and you have gained the foresight on how to avoid the same mistake.
When the teacher is wrong, forgive them, communicate with them, and continue to learn the valuable lessons you are fortunate to have the opportunity to learn!
You can connect with Damien L. Butler (mailto:Damien@manifest1.com) and Manifest One Empowerment Group (https://www.manifest1.com) on Twitter @DamienLButler and @TheManifestOne; on LinkedIn and see them on YouTube at 5 River Rocks TV!
The leaves are changing, the kids are back in school, and that familiar chill is in the air. You think it's the perfect time to look for a job, and it is! But are your job search fears preventing you from making that leap?
It's not uncommon to feel lost when embarking on your job search journey. After all, school teaches us everything except how to get a job. What should you put on your resume? What questions should you ask in an interview? How can you stand out in the hiring process when there's so much competition?
Are you feeling spooked yet?
Believe it or not, there's no need to be afraid of the job search process! You can land your dream job with the right tools and strategy. You can find a job that won't give you nightmares. Here are three spooky secrets every job seeker should know as they look for a job this fall.
1. An Effective Job Search Starts With An Interview Bucket List
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Despite your fears, you've decided to take the plunge and look for a new job. You might be asking yourself, "Where do I start?" The answer is simple: start by creating an interview bucket list.
An interview bucket list is a list of 10-20 companies you'd love to work for. Are you passionate about a company's products or services? Do you feel connected to its mission? Can you relate to its values and beliefs as an organization? If you answer "yes" to any of these questions, that company probably belongs on your interview bucket list.
Once you create an interview bucket list, you'll be able to conduct a targeted job search, one with direction and a foundation upon which everything else will be built. An interview bucket list helps you focus your job search and networking strategies on the right opportunities, making it easier to get your foot in the door at one of your dream companies.
2. Your Job Application Needs To Disrupt Hiring Managers
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In order to stand out in the hiring process, you need to disrupt recruiters and hiring managers. You accomplish this by doing two things: optimizing your resume and writing a disruptive cover letter.
A well-optimized resume includes keywords from the job description. This ensures your resume gets past the ATS and into the hands of the hiring manager. Once it's in front of the hiring manager, it needs to grab and keep their attention. Quantifying your work experience—adding numbers to your bullet points—will make you stand out from other applicants. Hiring managers will want to know more about you and your accomplishments, and that's how you land a phone interview.
Before that, though, a hiring manager will read your cover letter. To disrupt them, you need to write a disruptive cover letter (obviously!). A disruptive cover letter gives you the opportunity to tell a story about why you feel connected to the company you're applying for. It's that storytelling aspect that will stand out to hiring managers and compel them to pick up the phone and give you a call.
3. Employers Hire You Based On 3 Things
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You can't get hired unless you know what employers are assessing you on in the interview process. While your skills and expertise matter, companies actually hire for three things: personality, aptitude, and experience (in that order).
Most job seekers don't realize how important it is to demonstrate their personality, aptitude, and experience in an interview. You could have the right experience for a job, but if the hiring manager doesn't think your personality is a good fit for the company culture, you probably won't get a job offer.
Make sure you demonstrate your soft skills and learn how to answer behavioral interview questions to prove you're the best candidate for the job you're applying for, not just the most qualified.
Want To Learn More Job Search Secrets?
As you look for a job this fall, it might be helpful to know some more spooky secrets so you can get over your job search fears and finally take control of your career.
We know the job search process can be scary. However, it's important to get clear on what you want to do next and focus on conducting a strategic job search, or what we refer to at Work It DAILY as job shopping. This is the only way to effectively market yourself to employers. If they can't see exactly where and how you add value, then that's going to decrease your chances of landing the job.
The competition is fierce, and there are a lot of factors that are out of your control. But the one factor you can control is your job search strategy, the tools and tactics you use to land a job.
If you want to learn the secrets to conducting a strategic job search, sign up for our Job Search Bootcamp, a two-hour, on-demand video workshop that comes with a free workbook.
In this video workshop, you'll learn:
How to use backchanneling to get directly to hiring managers.
The secret to using a connection story to stand out against the competition.
How social media can be your secret weapon to get job interviews.
The resume format that is getting job seekers more job interviews.
